This daughter may have taken for granted the time that she spent with her father. She was certainly busy with life and many things.
And yet, time has a funny way of changing form, transforming and mutating. Once you have all the time in the world, and the next thing you know, all that time is completely gone. Don’t let time slip you by.
When I was a little girl, I remember that when my dad was repairing something he asked me to hold the hammer, just so we would have time for a conversation with each other. I never saw my dad drinking or taking a “night out with the boys”, all he did after work was take care of his family.
I grew up and left home for college and since then, my dad had been calling me every Sunday morning. And when several years later I bought a house, my dad was painting it by himself for three days in the 80-degree summer heat. All he asked was hold his paint brush and talk to him. But I was too busy in those days, I did not find any time for conversations with my dad.
Four years ago, my dad was visiting me. He spent hours putting together a swing set for my daughter. He asked to bring him a cup of tea and have a talk with him, but I had to prepare for a trip that weekend, so I did not have time for any long conversations that day.
One Sunday morning we had a telephone talk as usual, I noticed that my dad had forgotten some things that we discussed lately. I was in a hurry, so our conversation was short. A few hours later that day came a call. My father was in a hospital with an aneurysm. Immediately I bought ticket for a flight and on my way I was thinking about all missed occasions to have a talk with my dad.
By the time I have arrived to hospital, my father had passed away. Now it was he who did not have time for a conversation with me. I realized how little I knew about my dad, his deepest thoughts and dreams.
After his death I learned much more about him, and even more about myself. All he ever asked me was my time. And now he has all my attention every single day.
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